This is why I don't recommend installing Debian for users not knowledgeable about Linux. It takes a little getting used to. The basic installation will install a GUI, but I bet you missed the step.
What flavor/version of Debian did you install, sarge or etch?
During the installation, you should have seen a list of packages to install, under
Installing and configuring packages, you should have checked off;
[*] X window system
[*] Desktop environment
Let me see if I can find a good tutorial on this.
Do you know how to use apt-get? If so, see
this link.
Look at the section;
Installing KDE on Debian